Lesson 5 of 6 · What feeds it, and what to stop adding
The one sentence
Take the smallest and most physical of the four.
The move
Interrupting one feeder
10 minutes or less
- Pick ONE: going over it, sleep, being alone with it, or the advice you keep rereading.
- For going over it: when you notice, ask does this end in an action. If it does not, get up and change rooms.
- For sleep: fix the getting up time, not the going to bed time.
- For being alone with it: message one person one sentence. It does not have to be about this.
- Run whichever you chose for a week before touching the others.
If it does not work
If you notice you have been going over it for an hour, that is the noticing working, not a failure. The skill is catching it at forty minutes, then twenty. It does not start at zero.
Write the one sentence
A specific plan works better than a good intention. Fill both halves in your own words.
When
I will
Put it in your calendar
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