Lesson 2 of 6 · Why your body did this
The one sentence
Notice, do not fight. This lesson is about seeing the loop, not about changing what happens inside it yet.
The move
Taking the verdict out of it
5 minutes or less
- Write the sentence you have been carrying about what this means about you as a mother.
- Ask whether you would say it to a friend in the same first year.
- Cross out the part that is a verdict.
- What is left is a state with causes, and the causes are biological, psychological and situational at once.
If it does not work
If somebody else is saying it to you, that is heavier and it is worth telling somebody at your next appointment that this is being said.
Write the one sentence
A specific plan works better than a good intention. Fill both halves in your own words.
When
I will
Put it in your calendar
Pick a day and a time and you will get a calendar file to open. Nothing is sent anywhere.
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