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Lesson 2 of 6 · Shame and guilt are doing different jobs

What the research found, including where it is thin

Two studies. The first separates the two states and shows they predict opposite things. The second is the strongest single claim in this course, and we are printing its limits next to it rather than after it.

What the research says

Shame and guilt can be measured separately and they pull in opposite directions. Being prone to shame, which is feeling bad about yourself, went with more problematic substance use; being prone to guilt, feeling bad about what you did, did not. That distinction is the whole strategy of this course.

Shame and guilt can be measured separately and they go in opposite directions. A tendency towards shame, which is feeling bad about the self, went with more problematic alcohol and drug use. A tendency towards guilt, which is feeling bad about the act, did not, and if anything went the other way. Feeling worse about yourself is not a route to doing less.

Dearing RL, Stuewig J, Tangney JP (2005). On the importance of distinguishing shame from guilt: Relations to problematic alcohol and drug use. Addictive Behaviors, 30(7), 1392 to 1404 doi

Shame visible in the body and face, coded at one moment, predicted relapse and worse health later. The limits matter: this was in people recovering from alcohol dependence rather than from this problem, so it is a borrowed finding and we are saying so.

Shame shown in the body and the face, coded at one point in time, predicted relapse and worse health later on. The limits, and they matter: this was in people recovering from alcohol dependence, not in anybody using pornography, and the sample was small. Read it as evidence about shame and relapse in general, which is what it is, and not as evidence about this behaviour in particular.

Randles D, Tracy JL (2013). Nonverbal Displays of Shame Predict Relapse and Declining Health in Recovering Alcoholics. Clinical Psychological Science, 1(2), 149 to 155 doi

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