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That is what keeps the belief alive: it pays out just often enough. Rather than arguing about it, count. Take the last ten things you left to the wire and be honest about how each one turned out, and what it cost in sleep and apologies. What you want is the average, not the one night it came together brilliantly.
Those who race toward good things will be the first to get them (Quran 23:61). Moving early is treated as its own advantage, not merely as good manners.
المؤمنون
أُوْلَٰٓئِكَ يُسَٰرِعُونَ فِي ٱلۡخَيۡرَٰتِ وَهُمۡ لَهَا سَٰبِقُونَ
are the ones who race toward good things, and they will be the first to get them
Qur’an 23:61read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
A meta-analysis of trait self-control found it predicts a wide range of behaviours, and that the pattern fits people running on steady habits better than people making dramatic efforts of restraint. That is an argument against a system built on the crunch. It describes how people who cope tend to be set up rather than proving a habit will replace your deadline.
de Ridder DT, Lensvelt-Mulders G, Finkenauer C, Stok FM, Baumeister RF. (2012). Taking stock of self-control: a meta-analysis of how trait self-control relates to a wide range of behaviors.. Personality and social psychology review : an official journal of the Society for Personality and Social Psychology, Inc doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
A reward that turns up now and then is the hardest kind of pattern to give up.
Notice the question you are asking yourself. If it is do I feel like doing this, the answer will be no today, no tomorrow, and no on the day it is due.
Look at what you are actually working for this week. If every item is there to stop someone being cross or something going wrong, you are running on avoidance, and it is exhausting.
Instead of imagining consequences in general, remember one actual night you left it too late, and one actual time you started early. Your own memory carries a weight that a general warning never will.