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The trouble with most jobs is that nothing happens either way, at least not for weeks. A deal made in advance puts a real consequence next to it: the ticket you buy, the money that goes somewhere you would rather it did not, the weekend you do not book until the thing is done. Keep it small enough that you will honour it, because a deal you break twice is worse than no deal at all.
When you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in God (Quran 3:159). Deciding is given an edge to it, after which the doing begins.
آل عمران
فَبِمَا رَحۡمَةࣲ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمۡۖ وَلَوۡ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ ٱلۡقَلۡبِ لَٱنفَضُّواْ مِنۡ حَوۡلِكَۖ فَٱعۡفُ عَنۡهُمۡ وَٱسۡتَغۡفِرۡ لَهُمۡ وَشَاوِرۡهُمۡ فِي ٱلۡأَمۡرِۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمۡتَ فَتَوَكَّلۡ عَلَى ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُتَوَكِّلِينَ
By an act of mercy from God, you [Prophet] were gentle in your dealings with them- had you been harsh, or hard-hearted, they would have dispersed and left you- so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Consult with them about matters, then, when you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in God: God loves those who put their trust in Him
Qur’an 3:159read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
A meta-scientific reanalysis found the evidence for glucose as the fuel of willpower to be of limited value, which undercuts the idea that you can top yourself up and push through. If the tank model is that weak, arranging consequences around yourself is the better place to spend effort. That is an inference from what failed to hold up rather than a trial of commitment deals.
Vadillo MA, Gold N, Osman M. (2016). The Bitter Truth About Sugar and Willpower: The Limited Evidential Value of the Glucose Model of Ego Depletion.. Psychological science doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
A task with nothing attached to it never becomes the most pressing thing on the list.
Turn a vague plan into an if-then: when I sit down after lunch, I will open the one file.
Instead of imagining consequences in general, remember one actual night you left it too late, and one actual time you started early. Your own memory carries a weight that a general warning never will.
When you are the one helping, let the tone stay warm and a little funny. A person can hear a hard truth about their own week if it does not arrive solemnly.