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Telling yourself to observe your thoughts without judging them is a lot to ask mid conflict. Following a cold sensation is not. There is a real thing happening, it lasts a few seconds, and you can notice where it stops. When it fades, take another sip and do it again. Three of those and you are usually in a different place from where you started.
We send down pure water from the sky (Quran 25:48). Water arriving as relief is the image, and the cold at the back of your throat is a small and literal version of it.
الفرقان
وَهُوَ ٱلَّذِيٓ أَرۡسَلَ ٱلرِّيَٰحَ بُشۡرَۢا بَيۡنَ يَدَيۡ رَحۡمَتِهِۦۚ وَأَنزَلۡنَا مِنَ ٱلسَّمَآءِ مَآءࣰ طَهُورࣰ ا
It is He who sends the winds as heralds of good news before His Mercy. We send down pure water from the sky
Qur’an 25:48read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
In a randomised controlled trial, two weeks of aerobic exercise reduced post-traumatic stress symptoms, and how much people benefited varied with what they attended to while they exercised. That supports the general point that the attention you bring to a physical act is part of what the act does. It was a small short trial about exercise and trauma symptoms, not about sipping water during a row.
Fetzner MG, Asmundson GJ. (2015). Aerobic Exercise Reduces Symptoms of Posttraumatic Stress Disorder: A Randomized Controlled Trial.. Cognitive behaviour therapy doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
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