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It matters practically as well as personally. Anything you are trying to change, in a relationship or in yourself, needs some feeling to work with, because a moment only teaches you something new if you are present for it. So a flattening that has gone too far quietly holds up everything else. This is a conversation about adjusting a dose or trying something different, not about stopping on your own.
Is a dead person brought back to life by Us, and given light with which to walk among people (Quran 6:122). Being able to move among people again, rather than merely being upright, is what the verse treats as life.
الأنعام
أَوَمَن كَانَ مَيۡتࣰ ا فَأَحۡيَيۡنَٰهُ وَجَعَلۡنَا لَهُۥ نُورࣰ ا يَمۡشِي بِهِۦ فِي ٱلنَّاسِ كَمَن مَّثَلُهُۥ فِي ٱلظُّلُمَٰتِ لَيۡسَ بِخَارِجࣲ مِّنۡهَاۚ كَذَٰلِكَ زُيِّنَ لِلۡكَٰفِرِينَ مَا كَانُواْ يَعۡمَلُونَ
Is a dead person brought back to life by Us, and given light with which to walk among people, comparable to someone trapped in deep darkness who cannot escape? In this way the evil deeds of the disbelievers are made to seem alluring to them
Qur’an 6:122read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
The flattening of pleasure is known to be stubborn. In a secondary analysis of 440 depressed patients from a randomised trial, both cognitive behavioural therapy and behavioural activation improved the loss of pleasure and interest, but it responded less completely than the other symptoms and often lingered. This part often needs to be raised specifically rather than waited out.
Alsayednasser B, Widnall E, O'Mahen H, Wright K, Warren F, Ladwa A, Khazanov GK, Byford S, Kuyken W, Watkins E, Ekers D, Reed N, Fletcher E, McMillan D, Farrand P, Richards D, Dunn BD. (2022). How well do Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Behavioural Activation for depression repair anhedonia? A secondary analysis of the COBRA randomized controlled trial.. Behaviour research and therapy doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
Nothing new gets learned in a state where nothing registers.
Never stop or reduce a psychiatric medicine on your own; raise it and plan any change with the prescriber.
Pulling back makes you harder to reach, which makes people give up on reaching, which looks like proof that nobody was coming. The loop closes itself.
When someone says they feel nothing, find out where the nothing reaches. All the time, or only towards good things, or only here, in this conversation, when criticism is in the air?
The same sentence lands completely differently depending on who says it. If nothing stirs when it is described second hand, let the person it belongs to say it to you directly.