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Shifts that go unnamed tend to have evaporated by the evening. Saying the new version aloud, or writing a single sentence of it, turns it into something that happened rather than something you drifted through. Be modest about what you claim. Moving from I am worthless to I am probably not worthless is a real move and worth marking.
God does not change the condition of a people unless they change what is in themselves (Quran 13:11). Noticing what has actually moved inside is how you find out whether anything has.
الرعد
لَهُۥ مُعَقِّبَٰتࣱ مِّنۢ بَيۡنِ يَدَيۡهِ وَمِنۡ خَلۡفِهِۦ يَحۡفَظُونَهُۥ مِنۡ أَمۡرِ ٱللَّهِۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوۡمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُواْ مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمۡۗ وَإِذَآ أَرَادَ ٱللَّهُ بِقَوۡمࣲ سُوٓءࣰ ا فَلَا مَرَدَّ لَهُۥۚ وَمَا لَهُم مِّن دُونِهِۦ مِن وَالٍ
each person has guardian angels before him and behind, watching over him by God’s command. God does not change the condition of a people [for the worse] unless they change what is in themselves, but if He wills harm on a people, no one can ward it off–– apart from Him, they have no protector
Qur’an 13:11read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
Cognitive behavioural therapy has solid backing for adult depression, with 115 pooled studies showing it clearly beating control conditions, though its advantage over other established therapies was small. Those trials test whole treatment packages, and a closing question like this is one small part of one. So treat it as a sensible piece of a method that works overall, not as a technique proved on its own.
Cuijpers P, Berking M, Andersson G, Quigley L, Kleiboer A, Dobson KS. (2013). A meta-analysis of cognitive-behavioural therapy for adult depression, alone and in comparison with other treatments.. Canadian journal of psychiatry. Revue canadienne de psychiatrie doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
Something you have put into words is something you can find again.
Picture somebody you love saying this exact thought about themselves. What would you say back, and why is none of that available to you?
Name one hard thing today and ask what it might be growing in you: patience, humility, nearness to God.
Notice when you have jumped to the worst story, and hold it as a guess, not a fact.