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This is a useful trick if you tend to finish a practice thinking nothing happened. Rather than asking whether you feel better, which is a vague question, you are asking a very specific one: does this cheek feel different from that cheek. Then do the second side to even yourself up. It gives you evidence you did not have to talk yourself into.
'placed the shirt on to Jacob's face, his eyesight returned' (Quran 12:96). The change in the story is one anybody in the room could see, and noticing a plain difference is allowed to be enough.
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فَلَمَّآ أَن جَآءَ ٱلۡبَشِيرُ أَلۡقَىٰهُ عَلَىٰ وَجۡهِهِۦ فَٱرۡتَدَّ بَصِيرࣰ اۖ قَالَ أَلَمۡ أَقُل لَّكُمۡ إِنِّيٓ أَعۡلَمُ مِنَ ٱللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعۡلَمُونَ
Then, when the bearer of good news came and placed the shirt on to Jacob’s face, his eyesight returned and he said, ‘Did I not tell you that I have knowledge from God that you do not have?’
Qur’an 12:96read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
A Cochrane review of skin to skin care during medical procedures in newborns found reduced pain responses, visible in both behavioural and physiological measures. Effects from simple contact do show up in observations rather than only in what somebody says about themselves. Those were infants during procedures, which is a long way from comparing one side of your own face with the other.
Johnston C, Campbell-Yeo M, Disher T, Benoit B, Fernandes A, Streiner D, Inglis D, Zee R. (2017). Skin-to-skin care for procedural pain in neonates.. The Cochrane database of systematic reviews doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
A side by side comparison is easier for the body to answer than a question about your mood.
Rest both hands on your chest, feel it lift and fall, and let the breath go low enough that your belly moves too. If someone you love turns up in your mind while you do it, let them stay.
Find the soft place just under and behind your jaw, near your ears, and rest your fingers there. Then open and close your mouth slowly, slide the jaw forwards and back, and draw your chin gently towards your throat.
If you carry everything in your neck, that is not a separate problem from feeling on edge. The nerve that settles you passes right between the muscles that are gripping.