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Difficult things come out more easily when your hands are occupied and you are not looking straight at the other person. Walk side by side, drive somewhere, wash up together, keep the sewing going.
If you are the one listening, offer it first. Most people assume that picking something up would look rude or half interested, so they sit still and…
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