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Someone who holds themselves to an exact standard will often hear a gentle correction as an attack. With them the useful thing is timing: build some trust before you offer the other way of seeing it.
The reframe you have ready is probably right and probably too early. Consistency matters enormously to this person, so an alternative view is not…
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