Appearance
Loading practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrow these down
Open with the difficulty instead of the accusation. "This is hard for me to say" and "I am worried you will not like this" buy you a hearing that "you always" never will.
Two things happen at once when you start this way. The other person stops preparing a defence, because nothing has been thrown at them yet. And you…
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.