Practices

Ask a follow-up question instead of offering your own view.

Curiosity says you are still worth discovering; advice can quietly say the opposite.

Ask what makes them feel most cared for, and then believe the answer.

Our usual gestures are often for the person we imagine, not the one in front of us.

Reference something they told you last week, unprompted.

Remembering the small details of their life is quiet proof that they were truly heard.