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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Strong feeling narrows what you are aiming at, a narrow aim makes anything touching it look enormous, and that makes the feeling stronger. Get in early, because the loop is cheapest to interrupt at the start.
Waiting until you notice how big it has become means waiting until the loop has already gained. The practical version is to act on signals you would…
Hold up two hands: one is you, the other is what you are feeling. Ask how far apart they are right now, and you have a quick reading of where you stand.
Hands touching means you have merged with it and the feeling is speaking as you. A gap means you can still see it as something happening. The gap…
In a row, the words themselves rarely do the damage. The damage comes from what you do once you have decided the words mean something about you.
Someone can say something ugly and you can hear it as noise coming out of a person having a bad life. That is not pretending it was fine. It is…
Instead of marking a page, press one fingertip lightly against your knee each time you notice a thought going by. Nobody in the room will see it.
The paper version is fine at home and useless in a meeting or halfway through an argument, which is exactly where you need it. A small press, like…
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