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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Your alarm learned from something real, then started answering to things that merely resemble it. A rustle in the grass gets the same jolt as the animal that first taught you to run.
It helps to say to yourself, that was the sound, not the thing. The response is not stupid. It was built from a real event and it spread to whatever…
When the alarm takes over, the reasoning part of you goes quiet for a while. That is not you losing your mind. It comes back on its own.
People often frighten themselves twice: once with whatever set them off, and again with the sense that they have lost control of their own head.…
A car coming at you and a spider across the room set off the same alarm. Naming which one you are facing, before you act on it, is a skill worth practising.
Say it plainly to yourself: this is dangerous, or this is uncomfortable. Both are true of different things and the second does not require you to…
You do not have to win the argument in your head before your body is allowed to settle. The two run on separate tracks and you can work on either.
Plenty of people stay locked in the thinking, sure that once the question is finally answered the shaking will stop. It rarely happens in that order.…
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.
There is a difference between being disappointed with how things are and having given up on how things will be. The second needs a different level of care.
Disappointment still has a future attached to it: this is bad, and later might not be. Hopelessness has closed that off. If you hear someone move…