Practices

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There is no age at which finding out stops being worth it. People have been diagnosed in their eighties and described it as the first explanation that ever fitted.

A late diagnosis will not give back the jobs or the years, and it is fair to grieve those. What it does is rewrite the story: not a person who kept…

LongerWhat ADHD actually isADHD skillsQur’an 39:9One line of research

If you swallow it all day at work and it comes out at home, home is not where the problem is. It is just the safest place to put it down.

Anger lands where retaliation costs least, which usually means on the people who will forgive you. Two things help more than trying to be calmer at…

Five minutesWhat anger actually isCoreQur’an 7:150One line of research

The years you spent angry are not written off. The drive that wrecked things is the same drive available now for putting things right.

This is not a way of saying the damage was worth it. It is about what is still in your hands. People who have hurt others through their temper often…

LongerWhat anger actually isCoreQur’an 42:40One line of research

Giving up certainty is a loss, and it is fair to treat it as one. People do grieve the version of themselves who knew exactly what was going on.

The same piece of work gets called several things: getting used to uncertainty in small doses, learning to sit with confusion, or grieving the loss…

Five minutesWhat you are actually defendingMindfulnessQur’an 3:154One line of research

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.

Shame and stigma

Structure and routine

Touch and bodywork

What you are actually defending

Use your strengths

Breathing

Obsessions and compulsions

A skill that lives in your own body and your own phone stays with you after the appointments stop. That is worth choosing for.

Plenty of what helps during treatment ends when the relationship does. This does not. People often say afterwards that the breathing thing was the…

Five minutesYour nervous systemBody basedQur’an 50:16One line of research

Neurofeedback usually starts with an assessment, then a block of sessions, then a review, and it is mostly paid for privately. Ask about all of that before you begin.

It is a referral rather than something your therapist adds to a session, so you are taking on a second appointment, a second bill and a second…

Five minutesYour nervous systemMedical and treatmentQur’an 78:11One line of research

Feeling worse as things get safer is confusing, and it is common. When the guard finally comes down, whatever it was holding down gets felt.

This shows up when someone starts a calming practice, or moves somewhere safer, and instead of relief they get grief, irritability or a wave of old…

Five minutesYour nervous systemBody basedQur’an 94:1One line of research

Getting ill the week after the exams, the deadline or the funeral is not bad luck. It is the pattern.

You hold together through the push, and the moment it stops you are in bed with something. Often it was already brewing while you were still going.…

Five minutesYour nervous systemMedical and treatmentQur’an 94:2One line of research

When someone finally reaches somewhere safe, do not be surprised if they fall apart rather than bloom. Stay close through that part.

People who have lived on high alert often start grieving once the danger stops, and it can look like going backwards: more tears, more fear about the…

LongerYour nervous systemBody basedQur’an 106:4One line of research