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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Put a hand just below your ribs and let it move. Most of us breathe up in the chest, and the settling effect comes from lower down, where the diaphragm can actually shift.
You can check this lying down with a book on your stomach. If the book rises, the breath is going where you want it. If only your shoulders move, it…
Breathe in for about five and out for about ten, and do not hold at the top. Go straight from the in breath into the out breath, five to ten times over.
That pause after the inhale feels natural to add, and it can raise your heart rate rather than lowering it, which undoes what you came for. If ten…
Fighting, running and freezing are the ones everybody can name. There is a fourth: going along with things, smoothing them over, making yourself easy to be around so that nothing bad happens.
It gets read as being agreeable, or as a personality, and it is often neither. If you grew up being criticised, or spent years around someone…
You are not trying to talk yourself into feeling calm. You are trying to move your body from one setting into another, and the breath is the handle you can reach.
Once the alarm system is running, stress hormones are already in the blood and telling yourself to relax does very little about them. Changing the…
There is more about your body than the practices: the your body area has the themes and the courses too.
A child cannot watch their own breathing, so give them something to watch instead. Bubbles through a wand show the out breath as it happens: too hard and it bursts, too weak and nothing comes.
Smelling a flower and then blowing it out gives each half of the breath a picture. The bubble wand is better still, because it answers back straight…