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Worry and anxiety

Anxiety is not a character flaw and it is not weak faith. It is a body doing what it was built to do, at a moment when it is not needed. The practices here work on the loop itself: what worry promises and never delivers, what avoiding costs you, and how to let the body come down.

What works for this

Cognitive behavioural therapy

The treatment with the largest trial base for anxiety works on what you do about worry rather than on what you worry about. Catching it, postponing it, and testing a prediction instead of arguing with it.

One move, today

Pick one worry you had today. Write the exact thing you feared would happen, then write what actually happened. You are collecting evidence, not arguing.

What matches

3 practices

Narrow these down

You do not have to win the argument in your head before your body is allowed to settle. The two run on separate tracks and you can work on either.

Plenty of people stay locked in the thinking, sure that once the question is finally answered the shaking will stop. It rarely happens in that order.…

Five minutesWhat worry doesCBTQur’an 2:156One line of research

There is a difference between being disappointed with how things are and having given up on how things will be. The second needs a different level of care.

Disappointment still has a future attached to it: this is bad, and later might not be. Hopelessness has closed that off. If you hear someone move…

Five minutesWhat worry doesCBTQur’an 39:53One line of research

For some people the racing heart arrives before any thought at all, and the frightening explanation follows the sensation. If that is you, there is no thought to catch, so start with the body.

Build the physical steadying first, at a quiet time when nothing is happening, so that something is ready to reach for when it does. Slow breathing…

Five minutesWhat worry doesCBTQur’an 12:86One line of research

Learn this in order

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