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Your body
You cannot think your way out of a body that is braced. This area starts there: the breath, the ground under you, moving, eating, resting, and the small physical things that change how the rest of the day lands.
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Working from the body first
A body that has not slept, eaten or moved has less left over for holding itself steady. Changing the state you are in is often faster than changing the thoughts you are having, and it is more reliable when you are already worn out.
One move, today
A long slow out breath, longer than the in breath, three times. The out breath is the part that does the work.
What matches
2 practicesWhen you offer someone a practice, ask them to tell you if it did nothing, and mean it. Say out loud that plenty of these do not land.
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Let the breath go along with the movement rather than counting it out. If you are guiding someone, do not set the pace of their breathing for them.
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