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Say what is there now and adjust your words to match it. A shift like that is usually the most interesting moment in the whole round, because something underneath has come up to be looked at. Holding rigidly to the target you began with is the one sure way to shut that down. Check in between rounds: what is it now, and how strong.
The Qur'an describes a woman who 'conceives a light burden, going about freely, then grows heavy' (Quran 7:189). What is carried does not stay the same size, and there is no shame in saying it has changed.
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۞هُوَ ٱلَّذِي خَلَقَكُم مِّن نَّفۡسࣲ وَٰحِدَةࣲ وَجَعَلَ مِنۡهَا زَوۡجَهَا لِيَسۡكُنَ إِلَيۡهَاۖ فَلَمَّا تَغَشَّىٰهَا حَمَلَتۡ حَمۡلًا خَفِيفࣰ ا فَمَرَّتۡ بِهِۦۖ فَلَمَّآ أَثۡقَلَت دَّعَوَا ٱللَّهَ رَبَّهُمَا لَئِنۡ ءَاتَيۡتَنَا صَٰلِحࣰ ا لَّنَكُونَنَّ مِنَ ٱلشَّٰكِرِينَ
It is He who created you all from one soul, and from it made its mate so that he might find comfort in her: when one [of them] lies with his wife and she conceives a light burden, going about freely, then grows heavy, they both pray to God, their Lord, ‘If You give us a good child we shall certainly be grateful,’
Qur’an 7:189read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
A systematic review of oxytocin's prosocial effects in humans found the picture genuinely mixed, despite how confidently the mechanism gets invoked whenever people talk about closeness and calming. The honest position with any of this work is to follow what the person actually reports rather than what the theory predicts. That review is about a hormone, not about how emotional targets change during a technique.
Macdonald K, Macdonald TM. (2010). The peptide that binds: a systematic review of oxytocin and its prosocial effects in humans.. Harvard review of psychiatry doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
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Work one side of your face or body first, then stop and compare. The difference between the treated side and the untreated one is often surprisingly clear.
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