Practices

Two to four targets is the usual advice and three is plenty. A longer list looks thorough and quietly stops working.

Every extra line is another thing a busy teacher has to notice and rate honestly at the end of a lesson, and another thing the child is meant to hold…

Send the report between the adults, by email or through the school system. Do not make the child carry a piece of paper to four teachers and then home.

Carrying a document around all day, remembering to produce it at the right moments and getting it home in a bag is exactly the sort of thing the…

A report card with nothing attached to it changes nothing. The ratings have to lead somewhere at home, to something earned or not earned that day.

The sheet is only a measurement. What actually shifts behaviour is what follows it, which means the family side is where these plans live or die.…

Early on, reward the work being finished even when it is rough. Accuracy tends to follow once things are getting done at all.

If the reward only arrives for good work, a child who never finishes anything earns nothing, and a plan that pays out nothing stops being a plan. Set…

When a decision is looming, write the options out rather than talking them through. A test is coming: do nothing, make a revision timetable, ask for extra help. Three lines on paper.

Options do not tend to appear by themselves when planning is hard, and holding three of them in mind while weighing them up is harder still. On paper…

Make handed-in homework one of the tracked targets. It is the thing that goes wrong most and the thing worth most when it goes right.

Homework has four separate places to fail: writing down what it is, bringing the right things home, actually doing it, and getting it back the next…

Look in often, say the good bits out loud, and stop for a few minutes about every hour. Three small things that carry more than any talk about concentrating harder.

Checking in supplies the noticing a child cannot yet do for themselves, and it lands better as a passing question than as an inspection. The praise…

Not knowing how to do an ordinary thing, a bank transfer, a form, a phone call to book something, says nothing about your intelligence. It says nobody ever sat down and showed you.

These gaps hide well, because they embarrass people in a way that larger problems somehow do not. Someone can talk fluently about difficult ideas and…

University is one route, not the route. Saying so only helps if you can name the others, so find out what actually exists before you have the conversation.

Apprenticeships, supported employment schemes, part time study, a trade, working while doing one course at a time. In many places there are publicly…

Pick the place that will actually hold the person, not the one with the better name on the letterhead. Three years somewhere that fits beats one term somewhere that does not.

Ask concrete questions before anyone commits. Who notices when a student stops turning up. How are adjustments actually arranged, and by whom. How…

Before asking for something new, find out what has already been agreed. A great many adjustments sit unused on paper because the student was never told, or the teacher was never told.

Get hold of the actual document and read it properly. Extra time, a quiet room, not being made to read aloud, notes given in advance: these are often…

Start with less work than they can manage, not more, and add back slowly. Break the long jobs into pieces small enough that each one can be finished and noticed.

Setting the first week deliberately below capacity feels like giving in. What it actually does is produce a run of finished things, and a child who…

Teach the school's online system properly, once, and then treat it as something known. I do not know how to use it cannot stay true forever.

Sit down together and go through it: where assignments appear, how to see what is due, what to do when it will not load. Until that has happened,…

Sort the room out before you sort the willpower out. One agreed place to work, television off, phone in another room for the duration.

Attention here is pulled by whatever is brightest, and a phone face down on the table still wins. Taking the competition out of the room is far more…

Guard sleep first, especially through any long stretch away from the usual routine. Once the nights slide, everything else you have set up starts giving way.

Holidays, illness and school closures are when bedtimes drift, and a fortnight of late nights undoes more than any homework plan can fix. Keep the…

Put the schoolwork early in the day and let the screens come after it. For a teenager early means later than you would like, but the order stays the same.

Effort is a thing that runs down through a day, so the demanding job goes where there is most of it left. Teenagers really do wake up later, and…