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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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Ask which kind of support they want today rather than deciding for them.
Sometimes it is help, sometimes only company; asking spares you both the wrong gift.
Before you respond, say back what you heard them mean.
Being understood, even before being agreed with, settles almost everything.
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