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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Deep rest needs a dose like anything else. If a long daily relaxation is leaving you flatter each week rather than steadier, make it shorter.
Someone can start a forty day programme of long guided rest with the best intentions and find that by the second week they are sinking instead of…
If you are the person who steadies every room, ask yourself when a room last steadied you.
Some people are very good at this because they were handed the job at six years old, in a house where somebody had to keep everyone level. It becomes…
Real rest, closeness and unhurried prayer all ask for the same thing: being still while feeling safe. That is harder than it sounds if stillness has ever been dangerous.
It is why some people cope beautifully in a crisis and find a quiet evening unbearable, and why intimacy and slow worship are often the last things…
If you cannot feel your own state yet, a device that shows it on a screen can stand in until you can.
Ear clips and phone apps that display your heart rhythm turn something invisible into a light changing colour, and for people who have spent years…
If a practice feels like homework you are failing at, turn it into a game. Some feedback tools do this for you, bringing colour and birdsong to a grey screen as your heart rhythm settles.
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.
Trying hard to relax is a trap. The effort keeps you keyed up, and then you have one more thing to be bad at. Play sidesteps that entirely. It is the…