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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Run the same moment twice. The second time, change nothing except what you do with it, and let yourself not mind what the other person might be thinking.
Keeping the situation identical is the point, because then the only thing that moved was you. In a session that means the same silence and the same…
Practice gets more useful when someone is really watching. It also gets harder, so agree that part before you begin instead of adding it once the person is already in the middle of it.
An audience raises the stakes in a way that makes the rehearsal more like life, which is exactly why it helps. It is also where consent gets…
Practise not needing the praise, not only the approval. If a compliment can lift you that much, the same dial is being turned when somebody criticises you.
The mirror version of this exercise has someone hold a flattering thought about you while you sit with it and stay level. It feels odd, because few…
If you have someone safe to do it with, ask them to say the thing you dread being thought about you, on purpose, while you practise staying level.
Home is usually where the anger actually happens, so practice that stays in a therapy room or in your head only goes so far. Agree the words…
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