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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
When a young person is struggling to launch into adult life, it is usually two things at once: the practical scaffolding, and the social side. Work on one only and the other tends to pull it down.
Calendars, laundry and deadlines are the visible half. The harder half is friendship, saying no, asking for something, being alone in a room full of…
If you have been the one holding someone's schedule, meals and reminders together, do not put all of it down on the day they leave. Pass it over a piece at a time, each with a date on it.
Write out what you are actually doing for them: waking, appointments, repeat prescriptions, food, deadlines, forms. Most families are surprised by…
There are two jobs here, not one. Free up the time, and then be able to sit in it without feeling like a fraud.
Working more efficiently buys hours back, and that is the easier half. The harder half is the belief that rest is only for people who have finished…
Nothing here does the job on its own. Medication if it suits you, a few practical systems, something for the low mood and shame that has built up, and the people you live with brought into it.
The practical layer is the easiest to describe and the first to fall over, because whether you use a system at all depends on how you feel about…
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.