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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Do one small, slightly ridiculous thing together.
A shared bit of play refreshes a couple more than another serious conversation can.
Take ten quiet minutes to decompress before you walk in the door.
Arriving already softened means the day's stress is not spent on the person you love.
Ask them something you do not already know the answer to.
Today, ask your spouse one question you cannot predict the answer to. Not "how was your day." Something like: what are you quietly worried about this…
Name their three current worries to yourself, then gently check whether you were right.
Knowing what weighs on them today is how care becomes specific instead of general.
Learn how they were comforted as a child.
How someone was soothed long ago still shapes what feels like love now.
Apologise for what landed, not for what you meant.
If you owe an apology today, leave out the word "if" and leave out your intentions. Name what you actually did and what it cost them. "I dismissed…
There is more about your marriage than the practices: the your marriage area has the themes and the courses too.