Practices

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Take the spine through all six of its movements: forward, back, bending to each side, turning to each side. Standing or sitting, it takes under five minutes.

Doing the whole set matters more than doing any one of them beautifully. Left to ourselves we skip the direction that feels stiff or guarded, and…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 51:48Long taught, never tested

Posture does not only show what you feel, it decides what you can feel. Anger is very hard to reach with a collapsed chest, and grief is hard to reach when you are held rigidly upright.

If a feeling seems to be nowhere at all, look at the shape you are sitting in before deciding it is absent. Let the chest open a little, or let a…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 39:23Long taught, never tested

Once a movement is familiar, drop the pattern. Let it curve and wander towards wherever your body seems to want it, rather than doing it correctly.

Following instructions well is a skill many people learned early, sometimes because it was not safe to do anything else. A practice made entirely of…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 40:64Long taught, never tested

Let the breath go along with the movement rather than counting it out. If you are guiding someone, do not set the pace of their breathing for them.

Being told exactly when to breathe in and out is unpleasant for more people than you would expect, and for anyone whose breath was held tight through…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 48:4Long taught, never tested

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.

Being seen and judged

The cost of avoiding

Making it stick

Breathing

Treatment and medication

Remembering to do it

Knowing your partner

When you use something to cope

Breaking the worry loop

Shared spiritual life

Facing it a step at a time

Feeling from the inside

What you are actually defending

Fondness and admiration

Righteous anger and perfectionism

Emotions as signals

Obsessions and compulsions

Tolerate distress

Answering bids

Staying regulated in conflict

Listening and understanding

Posture and how you carry yourself

Rituals of connection

Shame

Anger, alcohol and the body

Question the thought

When anger turns to harm

Rebuilding trust

Your worth is not conditional

When you go numb

Notice the pattern and flex

Repair after rupture

Rest and pacing

Panic and the body

Living with uncertainty

Get it out of your head

Act on your values

Your window of tolerance

Listen to the body

Safety and grounding

Care for yourself in loss

After movement, take a moment on five things: the quality of your mind, of the sensation in your body, of your breathing, of your mood, and of your energy.

Doing this after moving rather than before gives you something to notice, since the body has just changed. Over time it builds a vocabulary. People…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 91:7Long taught, never tested

End a check-in with a question rather than a summary: what do I need in order to be properly here today?

Noticing your state can leave you stuck in reporting on yourself. The need question turns it into something you can act on, and the answer is often…

Five minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 2:186Long taught, never tested

If sitting still with your eyes closed has never worked, do it moving. Walking, washing up, gardening: the exercise is the same, and there is something to hold on to.

Sitting meditation asks for the hardest possible version of the task, sustained inward attention with nothing outside to grip. Attach attention to…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 3:191Long taught, never tested

Walk somewhere at a deliberately slower pace than normal. Stop now and then to look at something properly, and let your breathing settle into the pace.

Choosing to go slower is itself the exercise, because it is a small piece of holding back that you can actually feel. Ten minutes is plenty. Outdoors…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 67:15Long taught, never tested

If your child is learning to settle, learn it alongside them rather than supervising. Parents who practise report less stress of their own and less flying off the handle.

Attention difficulties run in families, so the adult in the room is often working with much the same wiring at the end of a longer day. Practising…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 16:80Long taught, never tested

If your imagination runs away with you, use it rather than fight it. Guided imagery gives a vivid mind somewhere to go.

Being able to disappear into a scene is a real ability, even when it has mostly got you into trouble at school and in meetings. A recording that…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 40:64Long taught, never tested

Left, right, left, right. Walking, swimming, drumming and rowing all give the body the same steady side to side rhythm that the seated techniques are copying.

If tapping your own shoulders feels odd, or you would rather not do anything that looks like a technique, go for a walk instead and let the rhythm do…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 20:53Long taught, never tested

Your settling kit should cost nothing. Tea you already buy, a photo already on your phone, an old jumper, a smooth stone, a puzzle that takes your whole attention.

Anything you have to buy first becomes a reason not to start, and for anyone short of money it can add a layer of shame to the thing that was meant…

Twenty minutesGrounding and settlingBody basedQur’an 16:80Long taught, never tested

If you are going to try a mindfulness course, give it the full eight weeks before deciding. Expect a real but moderate change rather than a different life.

Courses of this length help a good number of people and do very little for others, which is worth knowing at the start so that being in the second…

LongerGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 20:130Long taught, never tested

Attention problems often travel with anxiety or low mood, and those two eat working memory as well. Settling that layer can make everything else look quite different.

If you are anxious most of the day you will lose track of things, forget what you came into the room for and struggle to hold a plan, whether or not…

LongerGrounding and settlingMindfulnessQur’an 9:118Long taught, never tested