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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
It can help to give the parts of your brain jobs. The front of your head is the manager, the memory system is the librarian, and the alarm is a security guard who is good at his work and far too keen on it.
The point is not accuracy, it is having language you can reach for quickly. Saying the guard is overreacting again gets you further than trying to…
Offer choices rather than instructions. With a problem that runs on control, being told what to do gives that control somewhere to dig in.
Two or three real options, the trade-offs said plainly, and then the pick is genuinely theirs. That holds for the big decisions too, like moving to a…
When obsessions start early and dig in deep, ask gently what anxiety looks like elsewhere in the family. Often there is an undiagnosed parent, and often that parent is helping in ways that keep the whole thing running.
None of this is about blame. A parent who checks the locks for their child, answers the same question fifteen times, or arranges the evening around a…
Try swapping the word picky for particular. A fair number of people with ADHD have more densely packed taste buds, so the bitterness in a sprout arrives at full volume.
That changes what is going on at the table. A child is not refusing in order to be difficult, they are tasting something stronger than you are.…
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