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Lesson 2 of 6 · Control is a pattern, not an incident

How the pattern keeps itself turning

Four boxes, and the arrows between them are the mechanism. Follow the loop round once, slowly.

Isolation is the ring around all four, and it is the condition that lets the loop keep turning. The diagram shows a loop running through: A rule appears, then Your world gets smaller, then You explain it to yourself, then The consequence lands.