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Lesson 1 of 6 · What we are actually talking about

The one sentence

Noticing only. Write nothing down anywhere it could be found.

The move

Reading the list without deciding anything

5 minutes or less

  1. Read the list of what control looks like, once.
  2. Do not decide what your situation is today.
  3. Notice which ones you recognised, and stop there.
  4. If you are being watched, close this page and come back at a time you choose. Nothing here requires you to keep reading now.

If it does not work

If reading it made you frightened rather than clearer, that is information and it is worth trusting. The people on the helplines in the last lesson talk to people who are not sure, every day.

Write the one sentence

A specific plan works better than a good intention. Fill both halves in your own words.

When
I will
Put it in your calendar

Pick a day and a time and you will get a calendar file to open. Nothing is sent anywhere.

Kept in this browser only.