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The unremarked, dependable acts are exactly the ones that most deserve to be seen.
Whoever does not thank people, the Prophet ﷺ said, has not thanked God. The most thankless acts are usually the most faithful ones.
إبراهيم
وَإِذۡ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمۡ لَئِن شَكَرۡتُمۡ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمۡۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرۡتُمۡ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيدࣱ
Remember that He promised, “If you are thankful, I will give you more, but if you are thankless, My punishment is terrible indeed.” ’
Qur’an 14:7read it in the library
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah said :"Whoever is not grateful to the people, he is not grateful to Allah
Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1954graded sound, albanithe Arabic and its grading
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
The dependable, unremarked things are exactly what stop being seen. Naming one of them today tells them their quiet effort has not gone invisible.
ALGOE, S.; GABLE, S.; MAISEL, N. (2010). It's the little things: Everyday gratitude as a booster shot for romantic relationships. Personal Relationships doi
Daily-diary evidence for everyday gratitude effects.
Strength of evidence: seen more than once. Replicated observational or longitudinal work, not tested against a control.
Noticing the overlooked renews warmth on both sides.
Where this sits: Gottman method, The Positive Perspective.