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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
If a young person hears your suggestion of a planner as one more instruction, they will refuse it, and the refusal is about who is in charge rather than about diaries. Hand over the choice of format and the choice of what goes in.
It helps to be plain that this is theirs and not a monitoring device. That means not reading it over their shoulder and not producing it as evidence…
Move things off the to do list and into the week itself. Not write the report, but Wednesday at one, ninety minutes, write the report.
An undated task has nothing to make it happen. It sits there competing with whatever is loud right now and loses every time. Giving it a day, a start…
Once tasks sit in the week rather than on a list, you can see that Thursday has no room left. Saying no gets much easier when the crowding is in front of your eyes instead of somewhere in your head.
Holding several commitments in mind at once and weighing them against each other is genuinely hard. Looking at a full column and noticing there is…
A schedule tells you what to do now. It does not make you want to do it, and pretending otherwise sets you up to feel let down when three o'clock comes and you stay sitting.
Even so, knowing is a good half of the problem solved, and it is the half that is hard to fix any other way. The other half needs its own tools:…
There is more about focus, starting, and adhd than the practices: the focus, starting, and adhd area has the themes and the courses too.