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Lesson 2 of 6 · Why it comes back in waves

The crossing, not the staircase

Follow it round once. The point is not the order. The point is that you keep crossing, and that the crossing never stops and is not supposed to.

Early on, more time on the loss side. Later, more time on the other side, and still crossing. The diagram shows a loop running through: Facing the loss, then Getting on with life, then A wave, out of nowhere, then Ordinary things again.
Why it comes back in waves · Inshirah