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Alcohol does not add anger. It takes off the brake. Stimulants do the opposite job and press harder on the accelerator, and having both in you at once is the worst arrangement of the two.
What drink takes first is the part that holds you back, which is why nothing feels different from the inside. You are not angrier, there is simply…
The strongest pull is not the anger by itself. It is anger plus being right, the lift in the body and the certainty of the moral high ground arriving together.
That pairing is genuinely hard to put down, because giving it up means giving up more than a mood. It means not being the wronged one for a while.…
If you smoked or drank during a pregnancy and have spent years holding yourself responsible for how your child turned out, you are allowed to put some of that down.
The picture is genuinely tangled. The same traits run in families, so a parent is both more likely to pass something on and more likely to have been…
If telling your doctor or midwife what you are using feels impossible, you can ask someone you already trust to pass it on for you, with your permission and in your words.
People often stay quiet with the very clinician who could help, because saying it out loud feels heavier than the problem does. Handing the message…
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