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Focus, starting, and ADHD
Most advice about focus is written for a brain that starts easily. This area is not. It covers what ADHD actually is, how to make a start when starting is the hard part, how to bring a future consequence close enough to feel, and how to stop paying for it in shame.
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Putting things off is mood repair rather than laziness: delay removes the bad feeling straight away and the cost lands later. So the move is not more willpower, it is a plan specific enough to run without a decision.
One move, today
Write one sentence: when it is [time] and I am at [place], I will [the first small action]. Naming when and where is the part the evidence supports.
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345 practicesWhere a relative has taken ADHD medication, take the details: who they are to your patient, what they were given, what it did, and what was tried and dropped. Then put it in the referral letter.
No blood test tells a prescriber where to start, so a brother's clear response to one drug, or a mother's bad reaction to another, is one of the few…
There is no box you type 'always late' into and get the answer out of. When a sensible strategy is not landing, the work is finding out what is blocking it rather than producing another strategy.
If you notice yourself handing over the fourth tool for the same problem, stop and ask a different kind of question. What happened the last time they…
When something did not get done, find out which half broke. Did they not know what to do or when? Or was the plan fine, and the moment for doing it came and went?
Ask for the last time it happened, hour by hour, up to the point where it did not happen. A planning failure needs somewhere reliable to catch tasks…
Awareness is knowing what needs doing and when. Motivation is doing it once you know. Nearly every app on the market solves the first one, which is why buying another one so rarely helps.
Test it with one question: at the moment it did not happen, did you know? If the answer is yes, the reminder was never the missing piece, and a…
A man who could not get himself to bed kept his bedtime alarm upstairs, where his wife and baby were sleeping. Switching it off meant climbing the stairs, and leaving it meant waking them. The walk to the alarm was the thing he was trying to do anyway.
That is the part worth copying. Put the cue somewhere that costs something to answer, and make answering it land you where you meant to be. Anything…
Carry the rough proportions into every ADHD assessment. Executive function difficulty in the great majority, coordination difficulty in around half, dyslexia in something like a quarter to two fifths. A workup that never asks about handwriting, sport or reading is not finished.
The behaviour problem you were called about is often the visible end of an unidentified reading or coordination difficulty. Ask what PE is like, what…
It runs the other way as well. Among children referred for dyslexia, a sizeable minority also have ADHD and many have coordination difficulties too. Whatever is written on the referral, treat it as one part of the picture.
Where the reading difficulty is severe, motor involvement is more likely to be there alongside it, which is why the first look should be wider than…
Dyspraxia and developmental coordination disorder are the same thing carrying different passports. Search only the American term and you will miss a large European literature on assessing and helping these children.
Search both, and try the older names while you are there. It matters most when you are looking for what actually helps, since much of the…
When a bright, talkative autistic child arrives looking mainly behavioural, look underneath for a coordination or reading difficulty. Once the first label is in place, whatever comes after tends to get filed under it and never assessed on its own.
Watch for the child who does well in conversation and badly on paper, or who is fine in class and miserable at PE. Those gaps are usually a second…
Expect more anxiety, low mood, drinking and drug use in the young people coming through now. And expect the boys to say less about it, so go looking for irritability, trouble and substances instead of waiting to be told.
Ask parents what they are seeing rather than only what they have been told, and ask the young person directly and privately. Screening that rests on…
Keep the tasks short, a couple of minutes each, with results back the same day. A long test given to a child who cannot sustain attention measures how long they can last, not the thing you were trying to measure.
Brevity is not a convenience you are allowing yourself. It is what keeps the data honest, and it keeps the child willing for whatever you ask next.…
Choose the subtests that answer the question you were actually asked, and read whatever reports the family already has before adding anything of your own. Children arrive with thick folders, and they also arrive with nothing at all.
Where occupational therapy, speech and language or neuropsychology have already covered ground, do not cover it again for the sake of a complete…
When you explain executive function to parents and teachers, four words will do: attention, reasoning, speed, memory. Each one can be worked on, and four is a number people can still repeat at the school gate a week later.
The academic models have a dozen headings and nobody outside the field retains them. A short list gives parents something to hang observations on, so…
Two referrals turn up again and again. A young child being asked to leave a school for behaviour, with no developmental or cognitive information anywhere in the file. And a parent saying something is wrong while the school says everything is fine. Both are describing adult frustration rather than a formulation.
In each case the first job is the same: get some data. Not another opinion, not another meeting, but something measured about how this child thinks…
Clapping games, skipping rhymes and silly verses are worth doing. They are good for the ear and they cost nothing, but they will not on their own repair a reading difficulty, and it is kinder to say so early.
Play the games, and separately get the structured teaching that a child with a real decoding problem needs. Families are often told that rhyming…
Invent words together. Say a made up word, pull it apart into its sounds, put it back, then take one sound out and hear what is left. The nonsense is the point, because there is nothing for memory to fall back on.
With a real word, a child who cannot work with sounds can often get by on memory, and you learn nothing about what they can actually do. A made up…
Plenty of children read the equals sign as put the answer here. Write it the other way round sometimes, eight equals three plus five, so they meet the idea that both sides are simply the same amount.
Move the sign about. Leave the gap in the middle, four plus something equals two plus five, and watch what the child does with it. If they add…
When the usual route into reading or arithmetic does not form, children build another one, and it nearly always runs through memory. It works for years, and it costs far more effort than anyone watching realises.
This is the bright child who is somehow always tired, always slow with written work, quietly memorising what everyone else is working out. The route…
A short acting dose lasts around four to six hours in most people, and bodies vary a great deal around that. Some clear it quickly and feel almost nothing, some clear it slowly and feel every side effect at a small dose.
If a tablet seems to have worn off by mid morning, or a low dose feels overwhelming, report it as a pattern rather than as a failure. It usually…
If a small child cannot swallow tablets, that is a solvable problem rather than a reason to give up on treatment. One methylphenidate preparation comes as a skin patch.
Children who cannot manage pills often will not say so in words. What you see instead is spitting, hiding, gagging, or a battle every morning. Ask…
Pill swallowing can be taught in a few short sessions with sweets. Start with the tiniest ones, give two to eat for every one swallowed whole, and work up in size across a week.
Keep each session short and cheerful and stop before anyone is upset, since one frightening attempt can set the whole thing back weeks. For capsules,…
Dry mouth, a later bedtime and a smaller appetite are the usual early complaints, and each has a workaround. Knowing about them in advance turns a nasty surprise into something you were already expecting.
Water and sugar free sweets for the mouth, an earlier dose for the sleep, food loaded into breakfast and dinner for the appetite. Most people who…
A child who barely touches lunch may still eat a normal amount across the day. Look at breakfast and dinner before concluding that they are not eating.
The usual pattern is a decent breakfast, very little at midday and a large dinner, with appetite returning as the dose wears off. So make the two…
When a dose that was working seems to stop working in a growing child, check height and weight before you reach for the word tolerance. These medicines are dosed by body weight, and a child can simply have outgrown the dose.
It is the cheaper explanation and the more common one, and it takes a single appointment to test. Bring the growth chart and the dates when you…
A prescribed dose swallowed as a tablet is set to bring you into the ordinary range, not to make you high. The rise it produces is too slow and too small to be the sort of thing anybody chases.
Misuse in the research is concentrated among people who do not have ADHD and who take the medicine in ways it was never designed for, by crushing it,…
The realistic difficulty with this medicine is not misuse. It is forgetting, since part of what is being treated is the very ability to remember to do something later.
So put the reminder outside your head. A weekly pill organiser sitting on top of whatever you pick up every morning, an alarm with the name of the…
An untreated attention difficulty rarely stays a blank space. People tend to find something that steadies them, and what they find is not always kind.
Nicotine, coffee at strange hours, cannabis in the evening, a bit of somebody else's prescription: these are often attempts at self correction rather…
Conversations about alcohol and cannabis tend to be timed for the child you expect to have at fourteen. With an attention difficulty in the picture, start them earlier and keep them light.
Early does not mean heavy. It means the subject is already open, so the first offer is not the first mention. Keep the tone curious rather than…
Medication does not simply turn the brain up. On scans the regions that should be busy during a task get busier, and the ones that should stay quiet settle.
That detail matters more than it sounds. It says the trouble is one of aim rather than a shortage of effort, which is the opposite of what many…
Watch someone on a laboratory stop task and two things move together on medication: the fidgeting drops and the stopping gets more accurate.
Holding still and holding back turn out to run on the same machinery. That is why inhibition sits underneath so much else, from waiting your turn to…
In simulator work the biggest improvements on medication show up in the drivers who were worst without it: stopping properly, slowing for an amber, actually looking around.
That pattern is quietly reassuring. A drug that made everyone sharper would lift the good drivers as well, and this does not look like that. It looks…
When you are weighing up whether a teenager is ready for something, it helps to think in two thirds. A fifteen year old may be handling responsibility more like a twelve or thirteen year old.
This is not an insult and it should never be delivered as one. It is a way of explaining why a privilege arrives later here than for their friends,…
Offered ten pounds now or twenty in an hour, plenty of people with attention difficulties take the ten and know while they are doing it that it makes no sense. The pull towards now is not a flaw of character.
It shows up in a laboratory and it shows up on a bank statement. Naming it helps, because a thing with a name can be planned around: money moved by…
Before you explain anything about medication, ask what the person already believes about it. You cannot correct a worry that has never been said out loud.
Most people arrive carrying something: a cousin who could not sleep, a headline, a parent with a strong view. Lead with your own information and you…
None of the non-stimulants should be stopped suddenly. Guanfacine and clonidine began life as blood pressure medicines, and taking them away all at once can send blood pressure sharply back up.
Atomoxetine has its own unpleasant discontinuation effects, closer to those of an antidepressant. So a break because a prescription ran out, or…
In practice the non-stimulants turn up more often as an addition than on their own. A stimulant in the morning with guanfacine alongside it is a common shape.
The two act at different points of the same circuit, so they tend to complement rather than repeat each other, and the blood pressure effect of one…
When a dose wears off, things can feel worse than they ever did untreated. A good deal of that is contrast rather than the medicine leaving a debt behind.
You have spent the day at one level and then meet your own baseline without warning, late in the afternoon, usually with something still to do.…
A small short-acting dose in the afternoon, on top of the long-acting one, is ordinary practice rather than a special case. Homework and the evening drive often fall outside what the morning dose still reaches.
The hours when you most need to hold back are frequently the hours the medicine has stopped covering. Raising the morning dose to solve an early…
Skipping weekends, holidays and summers is a common suggestion and mostly it is the wrong call. The difficulty does not take a holiday when school does.
Unstructured time asks more of planning and self-regulation rather than less: whole days to fill, everyone at home, no timetable holding the shape of…
For a fair share of children, medication does more than take the edges off. Their behaviour in class comes back inside the ordinary range, which few treatments in psychiatry manage.
That matters for reasons past the symptoms themselves. A child who is no longer the one named in every staff meeting gets spoken to differently by…
