Practices

Keep a weekly date, just the two of you, to keep learning each other with open questions.

A regular two hours together, asking about dreams and hopes, keeps your map of each other current.

Ask your spouse about a dream they hold for their life, and one small way you could back it.

Not a task for this week. A hope for their life. Knowing it, and helping toward it, joins two lives.

Take one concrete action this week toward a goal your spouse cares about.

Watch the kids so they can study. Make the call they dread. Move their dream one inch.

Talk with your spouse about what your roles at home mean to each of you, not just who does what.

Not a chore chart. What providing, nurturing, or protecting means to you underneath.

Name one goal you are building toward together, and say it out loud as ours.

The home, the children's upbringing, a habit of worship. Something you are making together.