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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
When you notice you have stopped really being there with someone, change your body before you try to change your effort. Sit forward, unfold your arms, turn to face them properly.
Attention goes late in the day, and trying harder to care rarely brings it back. Moving does. Feet planted, hands open, shoulders squared to them,…
Repeating back what your partner said proves you were listening. It does not prove you were touched by it, and they can tell the difference.
Reflective listening can be done perfectly and still land cold, because the words check the content while your face and body report that nothing…
Two people who spend time in step really do become more attuned. Nothing passes between your brains while it happens, though, so put the hours in rather than waiting for the wiring.
The phrase about brains wiring together is a picture, and a lovely one. What is actually available to you is ordinary: the same room, the same walk…
Closeness arrives much faster in a small group that keeps meeting than in a wide circle you see now and then. If you want to feel less alone, pick the small thing that repeats.
Six people who show up every Tuesday and say something real will know each other within a couple of months. Sixty acquaintances will not. It does not…
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.